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Dec. 20th, 2003 | 12:11 pm
mood: depresseddepressed

Started crying and thinking suicidal thoughts again.

I don't handle losing hope well. I takes me a long time to recover from feeling rejected.

Nor do I believe I'll ever meet someone who has compatible values, which I feel is important because most of the time I talk about what's important to me I just end up offending everyone.

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from: musicwomyn
date: Dec. 20th, 2003 01:47 pm (UTC)
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I'm sorry you're feeling depressed. If you do want to talk, over the phone or on email, please know that I am here.

I think most of us our such unique beings that we will never find someone that matches us completely. Maybe you could make a list of things you must have in a partner, things you could tolerate going without, and other things you are more flexible about.

::hugs:: (and you will get a real, genuine, big hug from me when I see you in a few weeks

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[you'll find a light, find a friend, find a way]

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from: artemii
date: Dec. 20th, 2003 01:53 pm (UTC)
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well i don't think anyone matches anyone else's values 100% - but then to me a relationship would be pretty dull if the people were identical anyway.

i'm sorry you're feeling so bad. you're an intelligent and likeable person, and you've got a lot going for you. the fact that you don't have a girlfriend right now in no way diminishes any of these things.

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from: musicwomyn
date: Dec. 20th, 2003 04:08 pm (UTC)
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Might I recommend p. 156 from the Ethical Slut? There are bits and pieces about getting needs met and looking for Ms. Right

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