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Oct. 29th, 2003 | 01:36 am
mood: uncertain

I went to lesbian chat and discovered the activist woman who I though was rather cute is apparently now single. Unfortunately every time that I've tried talking to her it's been rather stilted and frustrating.

Toward the end of the evening I discovered that she'd gone to africa and started a non-profit doing micro-credit. She's also vegan (making me feel a little inferior)

As I left I was kicking myself for not being suave and sophisticated and be capable of carrying on a conversation.

Then I realized something, it seems like she's also nervous about talking to me. If my nervousness is due to me thinking she's attractive perhaps hers could be too? Then I thought about how it seemed like she was waiting around after the chat group but before we went to the coffee shop, where it seemed like she specifically asked me if I was going to the coffee shop.

Also while at the coffee shop we both did the glance at the other person, half-smile, look away, look back and hope that someone says something.

The sad thing is this suggests I rather definitely have a type. She's around 5'8" to 5'9", with long brunette hair, and is reasonably thin. I wonder who else I know that might describe.

I managed to find some courage and emailed her. I said it was nice to see her and that I'd like to hear more about her non-profit and that I'm interested in going dancing as well.

Ack!

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Xen Cat

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from: xencat
date: Oct. 29th, 2003 02:23 am (UTC)
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Sounds promising. Looking forward to updates 8-).

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Diane Trout

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from: alienghic
date: Oct. 29th, 2003 10:23 am (UTC)
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I did leave out the things about her that I feel somewhat worried about such as she's quite a bit younger than me. However since she seems so attractive, I really want to ignore all of that and spend more time around her. I hope that's not sleazy, ignoring potential issues because some one seems pretty. (Though in further self argument, I can try and convince myself that part of the reason she seems pretty is that she also seems kind.)

I hope she answers my email.

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Dieppe

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from: dieppe
date: Oct. 29th, 2003 05:23 am (UTC)
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I think I am learning one thing about talking to people and meeting people... everyone is nervous. It's a rare person who isn't a little nervous or apprehensive when talking to someone new or someone they might like. *shrug* Even the most apparently confident person I think...

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The Goddess (Obey The Mother Goddess)

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from: alejandromagno
date: Oct. 29th, 2003 03:04 pm (UTC)
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Ooh, girl! MM-hmm. Work it, girl. Get your groove on, babe. Lookit you!

I am so damn proud of you. You need to go out there and put yo' BIZness out there, kna' mean? ;-) ;-) ;-)

Don't worry about having a "type," since most people find certain personalities, physical attributes, and even body scents more appealing than others. But then, I have SO MANY types, it's a bit hard to prove that theory.

*Here's me, still holding a candle for the Moon Goddless...*

;-)

ATG
Alexander the Great

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Diane Trout

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from: alienghic
date: Oct. 30th, 2003 02:03 pm (UTC)
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I'm trying to have a groove, I think I might've finally found a wedge to start loosing myself up.

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from: musicwomyn
date: Oct. 30th, 2003 12:39 pm (UTC)
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I think I know the person you're talking about. What she at the chat reunion night? I know there was one other vegan in the room that night and she had long brown hair. Cute.

I say go for it. Email her. Emailing is a lot easier, too, because you can edit and you can't take it back once it's mailed. Also, this is just a reminder, you have nothing to lose. What's the worst that could happen and would it be that detrimental? The only thing you have is to gain in this situation, so go for it :)

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Diane Trout

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from: alienghic
date: Oct. 30th, 2003 02:02 pm (UTC)
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I don't remember if she was there or not. She's similar to secretslip in size, shape, and style. She also got into trouble on the tuesday chat list for posting about too much anti-war stuff.

I did email her and she didn't write back, and she even posted to the list.

However instead of giving up I thinking of going to the executive suite on saturday as she mentionend she was likely to try and go.

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