Yesterday evening was unpleasant. It started with a friend who was unhappy with me because I went off and watched part of anime series that she really liked and wanted to show to a the group when the it all came out at the end of the year.
Her tendency to be unhappy with me when I don't do what she wants is annoying but can be dealt with. The other thing she does is explain behaviors of mine that she doesn't like by questioning my gender identity. She thinks she can explains that I didn't understand that her desire to have a showing was binding in terms of my gender history. This is utterly unacceptable and I need to find some time to explain to her how hurtful that behavor is. (And though she tends to ignore it her gender identity is pretty questionable too)
Then I went to lesbian chat and although it was pleasant to see a number of people I hadn't seen in a some time, they spoke about sex. I'd already run out of psychological energy to deal with that subject from the previous few days.
The other thing is since there were quite a few women there I had trouble feeling connected with anyone as crowds tend to leave me feeling isolated.