Reflecting on my life, it appears that one of the best indicators of how well I'm going to maintain a friendship with someone is wether or not the habits and conventions of my life bring me to spend time with them or keep me seperated. I usually spend time with the same people in the same way.
There are people who I think are really neat positive people and want to spend more time with them, yet I don't. I think because I don't frequent any place near them, so don't accidentally run into them. I don't regularly talk with them and so become increasingly intimidated by the idea of calling.
I wonder how I can program habits that allow me to maintain relationships with people.
Okay, I'd also like habits that put me into situations where I'm like to meet people I could date.