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Jul. 4th, 2004 | 11:40 pm

I've noticed that over the past 6 months or so that lesbians have started expressing interest in me. I've been going to this lesbian group at the LA gay and lesbian center for years, and have always been ignored--until now.

The simplest answer is that I've lost 33 kg (73 lb) and am dressing better, and that at least here in LA, that makes a huge difference in how attractive one is considered. Alternatively since I'm less unhappy with my appearance, perhaps my body language is more confident and thus people are more willing to approach me.

I am curious as to what changes actually ellicted this improved response so I can continue trying to determine what other changes might improve my odds.

Right now it sure seems like indicating ones dating availability and desirability through assorted visual clues seems like a big game.

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