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Jan. 3rd, 2004 | 09:27 pm
mood: relaxedrelaxed

I spent some time helping an old friend move. It became really weird when I discovered that the only person in the room without a LJ account didn't have one because her boyfriend wouldn't give her an invite code.

I also talked to the activist on the phone and told her, given what happened on new years I really think that you aren't interested in me. She guiltily said yes, but that she really appreciates me as a friend. (I really wish people would just say things clearly instead of coming up with vague excuses.)

In a strange burst of self-worth I did suggest that she was missing an opportunity to go out with someone who is remarkably compassionate, thoughtful, attentive, with good communication skills, and who respects her. But if she wants she can continue trying to date people who are mean, disrespectful, and unsupportive. (Her physical preferences seems to be for really butch women.)

I wonder if I should introduce her to some of my tranny-boy friends. The ones that I know are far nicer than most of the butch women at the LA lesbian chat group. Being a guy is like being butch, but more, right?

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Xen Cat

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from: xencat
date: Jan. 4th, 2004 02:57 am (UTC)
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Of course you don't need invite codes any more...

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Diane Trout

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from: alienghic
date: Jan. 4th, 2004 10:17 am (UTC)
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Everyone but the boyfriend was rather quick to point that out.

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Xen Cat

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from: xencat
date: Jan. 4th, 2004 04:36 pm (UTC)
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*grin*

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secretslip

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from: secretslip
date: Jan. 5th, 2004 08:55 am (UTC)
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Did you burn the bridge?

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